Food, water, air, rest, and shelter We need this at the core centre These are the most basic human needs And aren't dependent on your deeds But, apart from what the body pleads There are psycho-socio-eco needs Followed by mindset and self actualization These are things that lead to motivation If we analyze the basics, You'll notice this A man will die without water or food And we need oxygen irrespective of aptitude Hypothermia and hyperthermia, the elements and weather Frost bites and heat strokes can kill us if unprotected without shelter Exhaustion and lack of sleep can actually lead to death If you don't shut those peepers, you'll probably begin to hallucinate But what about sex? Let's look at the specs Turns out, no one ever died due to lack of it! And sure, even I'll admit Sex is a strong desire, like an urge If you don't have it regularly or ever, you won't drown and submerge Sure, regular sex will keep the mind healthy and happy Balance out the hormones and make you feel a bit stress-free And although it's not a basic human need For many, its gratification is their only creed That being said, the power of the flesh Is quite a complicated, tangled mesh Many heroes have been destroyed Do you recall the battle of Troy? The history of mankind is plagued with such stories Over religion and flesh, more than territory I was born and raised Catholic, that's true I don't agree with a tenet, among other few I feel the clergy and religious personnel shoul be permitted a spouse That's just my opinion; it'll reduce temptation in the house Either way, if you choose priestly robes You better not be disrespecting those There's always a choice, you can still walk out If it's not for you, or if you're having doubts Just like married people should'nt cheat; it's adultery Both these cases are instances of treachery Sex is a drive; it's not a need, but an urge All of your time or thoughts on it, do not splurge!
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Inhale Peace; Exhale Love. Joy will Follow! - RUELHA 
“Sex is a drive; it’s not a need, but an urge”
Of Course That Depends on the Definition of Sex.
And oF Course Definitions Change Depending on Cultural Influences Indeed.
For instance, After Bill Clinton “Changed The Definition” Of ‘Sex’, Somewhat,
In Suggesting
Oral Sex
Wasn’t
Sex, Strangely
Enough (Not really)
Oral Sex Became
More Common Place
Among Younger folks
Than Intercourse; True,
it Became More Socially
Acceptable too as the President
Suggested it Wasn’t even ‘Sex’…
Hehe, See How this Works or Does Not;
Cultural Morals Determine Indeed What Are
Now More Needs Versus Urges Culturally As
That Also Applies to More Primitive Cultures Without
Much Technology Where the VERY MOST IMPORTANT
WORK IS CULTURALLY DETERMINED AS ‘THE WORK
OF THE NIGHT’ All the Way From Puberty Where there are
Actually No Words in their Language for Homosexuality or Masturbation.
Yet Again, Without the ‘Work of the Night’ and little Technology And an All
Hands Effort of the Village Required to Even Survive SEX IS THE NUMBER
ONE PRIORITY OF NEED AND
This is Why We See
So Much so-Called ‘Porn’
In More So-called Primitive
Civilizations too As If there is
Not Enough Sex The Whole Tribe Goes
Away And Does Not Return As the Social Group Exists now then…
Yes, Yes, Obviously Some Folks Are Born With Very Low Libidos…
Yes, Yes, Science Shows if Enough Social Stress Accompanies a
Pregnancy in the Womb Folks Are Born More with a Homosexual
Propensity as some Folks Suggest that Homosexual Sex is not
REAL SEX TOO…
AGAIN, DEPENDS
ON THE CULTURAL DEFINITION(s).
So Let’s Look At Masturbation and
Porn in the World Today (Yet Most
Folks do Indeed Lie about it Most
Every day of their Life When Asked)
Yes, Science Shows That Overall Around
the Globe 78 Percent of Males And Females
Do Indeed Engage in Masturbation; And in the
United States Specifically 92 Percent of Males
And 76 Percent of Females; So, Indeed, Culture Makes
A Huge Difference Now on What Folks Do to Take Care of
What this Drive, This Urge, This Want, This Need Actually
Is and Truly 100 Percent Absolute Black and White Thinking
Just Won’t Work on an Individual Basis; Some Folks DO NEED
SEX TO SURVIVE; SOME SOCIETIES DO NEED SEX TO SURVIVE
WITH AN ENTIRE GROUP EFFORT TOO AS SCIENCE SHOWS IS TRUE.
Additionally, Science Shows That in the United States 98 Percent of
Males View Pornography and 73 Percent of Females Do As Well…
So How Might that apply to the Needs of the Individual. Well It is true,
Some Psychopathic Leaning Folks Either Born or Bred That Way Have
No Ability to Feel the Warm Oxytocin Connections That Bond Human Beings
in The Actual Warmth in Emotional Feelings of Love; For them, All Love really
Is is Sex
For Them
Indeed if There is
No Sex as a Need in
A Relationship There is
Not Even A Temporary
Bond Lasting 15 Minutes
Or Whatever it Takes For
Only Pleasure to Make that Bond
That Keeps a Relationship together
if it Satisfies that Only Need that Makes
A Relationship Real to that Poor Individual
Who has No Resources of the Warmth of Love;
Yes Again, Sadly Either Bred through Neglect and
Abuse that way or even Sadder Born that Way as
It is a Biological
Deficit some
Humans Do Not Have…
Beyond These Considerations,
Sadly Again for Cultures That Do Not
Understand All the Benefits of A Healthy
Balanced Sex Life As that is Applicable
to Males Having a 50 Percent Less Chance
Of Dying From a Heart Attack with Two Orgasms
A Week On average compared to One as It’s Also
Worth Noting That Men are Wired Differently For Sex
Than Women in General As Men Are Wired more For Variety
And Women More For Monogamous Relationships for
Nurturing the Child And Of Course Exceptions on
Both Sides and the ‘Tween Do Come As well
In the Biology of All the Colors And
And Shades of Grey Beyond 50
That Makes Us Humans With
Diversity in All Drives, Urges,
And What is Actually Different
In Needs Among Different
Individuals And Cultures too
As the Great Modern Philosopher
Alan Watts Said Who Studied All Cultures
And Religions Across the Globe too, There are
Some Human Beings who Are So In touch With
Higher Levels of Experiencing the World in ‘Spiritual’ Pleasurable
Ways That Sex Becomes A Second Rate of Pleasure Indeed…
And It’s True i Was Born that Way and It’s True if i Never ever
Had Sex i Wouldn’t Still Be Missing The Best Pleasures of All In Life…
However, Never the Less my Libido WaS EXTREMELY HIGH AND
IN A PLACE OF GREAT IGNORANCE IN CULTURE AS THAT
APPLIES TO HEALTHY LEVELS OF SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE
FOR ME THAT MEANT
MANY DAYS
AND HOURS
EXPERIENCING
Epididymal Hypertension
As i am Doing may Very Best
to Be Politically Correct on Your
Blog too And It’s True This is Another
Difference Why Overall All Sexual Releases
May Be Perceived as More a Need For A Male than A Female…
Particularly, if There is No One around to Explain Why Nocturnal
Emissions Happen SO MUCH oh Lord How embarrassing when
You are Growing
up as the only
Male in a Household
With no one to give you a
Clue of WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU…
It’s Like the Movie ‘Carrie’ And the Ignorance
Portrayed in that Movie When She Started Her
Menstrual Periods i was Literally Concerned
Someone Might Say i deserve to go to Hell
For Being
Human
For Being
Human For Being
Human For Being Human Being…
We LiVE iN A Very Ignorant World
When it Comes to Talking about
THE Greatest
Need
to
Even
Survive….
And It’s True in Japan
Young Folks Have Lost
A Desire to Procreate with
Each Other And In Not Doing
So That Culture is Figuring out
Just How Much of a Need to
Survive Sex really is again AS the WORK OF THE NIGHT
TO KEEP THE HUMAN CONDITION COMING BACK AGAIN for real…
The Same thing is Happening in the United States too With Lower Levels
of Fertility Among the Young; However, Humans are Living Out of Balance
With the Rest of Nature
And this is the
Consequence
of What Happens
When Any Species
Lives out of Balance with
The Rest of Nature They Start to Naturally Go Away…
Hmm, Interesting Subject Sex is Indeed And Difficult
For Humans to Discuss in a Modern Mature Truly Rational Way…
Yet of course, Not Everyone is Afraid With Life Experiences And Thicker Skin…
And What Song For This, i Guess “The Show Must Go On” By Three Dog Night Hehe..
HAha, Human,
One of the
Only Animals
Besides Sea Horses
And the Such Who
Routinely Forget
The Need of Sex in Life…
Yes, Yes, Oh God Yes, No, Yes
A Result of Modern CuLTURES
Yes It’s True Some Folks
Are Just Too Stressed Out
to Do it With Each Other at all
Yet never the Less the Show
Goes On in the Work of Other Ways
As A Basic Need of Surviving This Life As Is…
Honestly, Human Beings Haven’t Advanced Much in the Being…
Overall, There’s Plenty
Of Evidence
We’ve all
in General
Devolved
Somewhat
in One Lifetime
Now So Far away
So Fallen from an Original Garden Of Loving All of
Our Nature And The Rest of Nature Freer in Balance Now…
It’s True A Group of Apes Hugging Each Other Naked When
Human Apes Approach Them in the Zoo Experience More
Warmth in
Life than
Many
Humans
Ever do.. So Sad…
i Used to Have Human
EYes so Cold Like that too…
i do Understand What Being ‘Cold’ Means…
When ‘the Show’ Just No Longer Goes on Anymore Forever Now…
So Far Away
From a Place
Love Doesn’t Exist…
Then Ya Understand
God is Love If Ya ever
Are Fortunate Enough
to Meet God Is Love Ever In Life…
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