What on earth has it come down to?
Maybe wear a burqa for your next interview!
Everywhere people are expecting favours,
But for some, it's a deal breaker.
At first, she did not understand.
What exactly was on their mind.
"You want me to complete some tasks?
Is that what you meant when you asked?
Would I be willing to do some favours?
Can you be more specific, exactly of what nature?"
Oh how and why did she not understand?
Had she only known what it meant beforehand.
"Why do you need my pictures in western outfits?"
This is a big company, but something does not rightly fit.
'Take care of the chairman', what does that even mean?
The job profile, that statement did demean.
The pay did seem a whole lot more.
And by now, why we know.
Willing to travel with the directors.
International, domestic, any other sector.
Apparently people are always willing.
To pay a whole lot more than meagre shillings.
For someone who can handle work with favours.
There's always scope if you chase that endeavour.
It's a recession-free trade.
In it, lots of money can be made.
The biggest, most well-known names.
Business tycoons, such a shame.
Can't really blame only the men.
Many women themselves prefer to bend.
And for women who are in dire need.
Who've got little ones and hungry mouths to feed.
I hope they find another way.
And don't succumb or fall astray.
Into the clutches of despicable nets.
That will drain their souls in regret.
Some conceal these things and spring upon suddenly.
And some others just tell you upfront blatantly.
Sometimes, you have a choice.
And sometimes, you don't really get to decide.
Either way, it's just horrible.
And for my kind, I feel terrible.
Women deserve more respect.
If that ever happened, life would be perfect.
We are not all about our curves.
Our body parts to be objectified and observed.
We are so much more.
I earnestly ask all the men and implore.
Well, this isn't a first hand story.
It happened to a friend of mine, consecutively.
Three times at different interviews.
Until she realized it wasn't her, but their point of view.
The things she narrated are a whole lot more.
But I promised her, too many details I wouldn't echo.
Like I said, women deserve more respect.
If that ever happened, life would be perfect.
- RUELHA
www.ruelha.com
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A sorry state indeed. Powerful and relevant theme.
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It is the bitter truth, I agree Saji.
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Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
BRAVO–BRAVO–BRAVO—!!! YOU TELL ‘EM RUE, YOU TELL THEM!
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I HOPE YOUR FRIEND FOUND EMPLOYMENT WHERE SHE WAS RESPECTED AND VALUED. MUST BE HARD TO FIND THAT KIND OF ILLUSTRATION. YOU ARE A CREDIT TO OUR SPECIES RUELHA! 😀
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The poor thing is still looking unfortunately…..corona made it difficult to find any job.
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A thorny issue, well plucked! Sadly, it is still far too common a practice across the world, it’s just that some places hide them better than some Desi companies 😦
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Absolutely….happens everywhere on different levels and different ways. Maybe someday, it will cease to exist.
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Amen to that!!!!
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“Weight, Height, Complexion, And Caste”
Shall We Wonder Why Women Are So Objectified
Where You Live When These are Traditional Objectives
Set In Advance for Lifelong Marriages Between Humans
Yet True As Science
Shows Men Are
Naturally Attracted
to Fertile Hips and
Estrogen Dripping
Glowing Skin for Successful
Reproduction So the Species
Will continue on and of course
This Does Not Come In Any ‘Objective’
Manual To Traditionally Arrange Marriages Either
And My Goodness Most of Indians are Satisfied
By Arranged Marriages and Divorce Rates Reported
Somewhere Tween 1 and 4 Percent Surely A Greater
Batting Average Than the American 40 to 50 Percent
Rate of Divorces in Unsuccessful Marriage Yet
Of Courses Satisfaction in life is Relative
Depending on How We View Life
The Perspectives Different
That Unlimited
Potential
in Variances of Cultures Bring
True Some Women Find Great
Social Esteem Through Female
Mutilation to take their Pleasure Away
The Self-Esteem Means More Yet Wait!
That’s a Judgement After the Pleasure Organ
Has Been Mutilated and that Experience of Life Doesn’t Exist…
It’s Like Romance and True Love if You Never Experience it
for All practical Intents and Purposes it doesn’t exist in Life
Except for Perhaps What We See on Big and Little Screens
And in Facebook Life We Dream of Other Folks that
Is almost Never Reflective of all the Experiences
of Life haha unless you PUT IT ALL OUT THERE
DARK AND LIGHT THE WAY i do with ease
as i’ve been outcast off this Earth
From Almost Everyone
There Just isn’t
Anything
left to lose
once ya Learn to
Stand On Two Feet of Love Enough
When No One Else Seems to be able to Help You Up….
Yet Here’s a Thing Folks Will Do as You Say What it takes to Survive
They Will Prostitute Their Mind Spirit Heart And Soul Where in someways
Flesh is the Least of the Transaction unless We Give the Flesh more Value
than what breathes within some folks don’t see a great value in conserving
Their Body Parts For Barter They rather Seek Power And Position in Life
Than Conserve those Goods of Flesh is that any less Prostitution
Than Agreeing to an Arranged
Marriage A Person
Does Not
Want
No Of course
Not For Prostitution
For Socio-Economic Goods
To Trade for Love Is No Less Prostitution of Soul
Or Staying With Golden Hand-Cuffs in a Job that Promises
Lifelong Benefits After it ends even if it Kills Your Soul and You Lose
A Greatest Treasure that makes Life worth living at all Yes so many Damned
Ways to Fall to Prostitution Where the Flesh May Be the Part that hurts the least…
Oh and For Base Shadow Human Aggression And Lust to Survive as Well While it’s
True Hormones Play a Part in Male Propensity to Master a Shadow Within this way
i’ve experienced life as the Ugly Male Duckling and the one in Demand And Have
Been Groped in Many Ways by Women From Age 21 when i first wore contact lens
Until Close to 60 That Most Men wouldn’t dare to do to A Woman they’ve
Never Met for the consequence in Legalities to Pay there is also
A Double Standard that applies too like A Very Devout Catholic
Woman Facebook Friend i had who talked about how
Women Dress as Whores And Sluts And Were
of the way of Evil While Posting Pictures
of Firemen in G-Strings on Facebook
Oh Yeah and when she
Said Covid-19
Cautions Were Against
Her Freedoms And Supported
Everything the Most Vile Demagogue
Politician America has Ever had in the Name
of Her Church i Advised her on the Science of it
And the Danger For Hundreds of Thousands of Lives
to Go Away as what happened next and her reward was
Pressing the Button on Facebook to Erase a Thirty Year
Friendship from Back in the Dance Hall Days of the 80’s
When She Drooled Over Every Man Who came Her Way…
Go Figure Folks Have Shadows Some Folks Master them
Some Folks Don’t And Some Folks Rue Are Mastered by
Others they are not
Even aware of
This Life is Art
This Life is Chaos
And Order That Humans
Create or Do Not This Life is Art
This Life is a Life Long Art and i find
Humans Fascinating to Study Who
Believe they even Understand themselves….
i surely Understand my Beast better than
to Believe i’ll ever completely Master it…
True i’ve had Folks ‘Tempt’ me
in Ways to
Prove me Wrong…
Seduction is at core oF all Humans
Do Whether they admit to it or not…
Yet of course Not all Humans as Some
Humans Are practically Dead this way within
Ironically that’s Neither Healthy or Normal as
if it wasn’t For All Stuff Libido And Seduction We Wouldn’t
Even Exist There Are too Many Cold Winters to Survive Without
Lust to keep us
all going…
Haha
Yet
of course
in this way
i’m always Dancing
And Singing to the Choir
Just Writing in Flow as it
it is a pleasure that is Longer
Than 3 Hours or so hehe
As sure i tend to do
The best
i can
and will
in all human
Intelligences that come and go and stay…
Smiles in the United States ‘They’ Are Attempting
to ‘Cancel Human Nature’ Let’s See how that works out….
Oh the Art of Human Ya Just Never know what comes Next…
For me at least as an Empath i can’t imagine any Pleasure
For Forcing Someone to Do Something they do not wanna do….
And Fame, Fortune, Societal Status, And Glamor doesn’t Impress me at all
Oh yet
Depths
of the Soul Do…
So Far Beyond the Flesh
And Temporary Spurts of Pleasure….
Smiles Dear Rue if Life Were Perfect
We’d All Be Robots Including God IN Hell
Just Machines Programmed With No Room For
Error Just Light With No Dark Where Light Doesn’t exist at all…
Just A Painting With No Shadows Where Beauty is Dead and Flat….
just nothing at all…
So the
Pain
and the Pleasure
Continues All this
Heaven All these Flavors
All This Complaining to Feel Pleasure again..
And i know
Nothing
Yet i Feel
And Sense it all
And Am Still Happy to
Breathe this Present Moment
the only Gift That Exists Now This
God Now DarK Thru LiGHT For Real
When God Becomes Real All Becomes
Free Wings At Ease
Falling
Rising
Same Balancing..
FRiEnDS With Gravity
DarK Thru LiGHT God Breathes
Yet i know Nothing Just Nothing at all…
Yet i am Now And This is All Enough All
Complete Now With More to come indeed as River Flows…
Not HAVING to Work for Money Not HAVING to Find a ‘Mate’
Lends so much
Freedom
Indeed
for Priestly
Orders Art Out of Chaos Magic..
Such a Tiny Sliver for a Potential
for Heaven Never the less Real Now
So Many Hot And Cold Rocks In Space
What Are the Chances for Heaven God Exists now For Real
at
least
for me..
as Remember
i am always Dancing
And Singing For Those Who ‘Don’t Believe’
You are the Choir Dear Rue There is Nothing to give to You..:)
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Oh dear, this is a dark reality. I am worried women have to go through this phase at some point. Real men are there but there are also some monsters. Life would be perfect if only they knew women are not merely for favours. A well written poem dear Ru. ❤️❤️❤️
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Thank you Preeths for corroborating my statements. I hope and pray you never encounter any monsters in your entire life, my sweet cyber sister. Xoxoxoxo
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You are a sweetheart. Thanks for the care and love 😍😍😍
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Sadly so topical at the moment
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True Derrick, it is a sad state of affairs…..
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agree, women deserve respectful treatment, and any and all harassment must be punished
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Absolutely. I’m so glad you echo these sentiments. It’s great to hear these words as support from a gentleman such as you.
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