So, I was born Roman Catholic. And as you guessed, my life was fantastic. Besides, I lived in Bombay city. Just like the four generations before me. My ancestors were always blamed for ruining Indian culture. English, weird meats, cake and wine, dressing supposedly vulgar. I was born in a open minded home, with not many restrictions on where to roam. Or whom I could befriend. I openly introduced all of my boyfriends. Well true, there were just another two. But, you get the idea, don't you? I was born with freedom of speech. Never made to implore or beseech. I enjoyed the same rights. Of my elder brother who sat beside. We were given equal opportunities. I'm grateful I was born in such a community. All throughout my life I wore, trendy clothes that never bore. Skirts, dresses and even hot pants, probably the size of tiny little ants. It's not just about speech and clothes. It's about respect and freedom, that many oppose. I was never repressed. I was never oppressed. I was never suppressed. Only after travelling a lot, I realized most women are dealt a poor shot. My freedom, my life was highly coveted. That's what I've always regretted. I don't know if I'll ever be able to do. Anything for some woman, even just a few. But, I wish someday women are given the respect, without being viewed as mere sexual objects. Stupid, inferior beings or just maids and cooks, only capable, a child to take care of and look. -RUELHA www.ruelha.com Β© Copyright Protected. All Rights Reserved.
This poem is not intended to hurt the sentiments of any person/community/group. I am not a feminist, at least not in the way it has shaped up today. I don’t go around demanding equal pay for certain jobs where men bring in more revenue or insist on period leave. I don’t claim women are superior to men or more believable than men. We are not equal physically/emotionally. We have our sets of weaknesses and strengths and are unique in our own way. But, I feel very strongly about issues such as women’s liberation, respect, rights, education, female infanticide (fortunately sex determination is illegal and a severely punishable offence since many decades), sati (fortunately already abolished by the British), rape, consent etc. I intend to write many more poems pertaining to these issues. This is the first one in the series. I hope you enjoy reading them and I sincerely pray it brings light to pending issues.
This poem is very good, your point of view and what you have experience a great insight
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A powerful point, well made!
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You are, as ever, most welcome π
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Very well penned dear Ru. You are lucky to have an understanding family beside. β€οΈβ€οΈ
You look gorgeous dear. π₯°π₯°π₯°
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Very very blessed….I was born into a home with all the freedoms and rights and opportunities that any woman would ever desire!
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Hats off dearππ»ππ»ππ» proud of youππ»ππ» i so wish india changes its perspective towards women really… Hope the day of freedom will come for women too
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Thank you Soni….
As an Indian woman, you know the hardships women face here. I hope the day if freedom comes soooooooooooon
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You are from generations of rebels. That’s wonderful Good Christians doing your parts to make the world around you a better place. Excellent poem.
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A little different every generation….I don’t know if I did my part…..but i hope to through lots and lots of grace somedayππΌβοΈππΌ
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Itβs True Rue Men And
Women Have
Different
Strengths
Cooperation
More For
Women
Naturally
Through Lower
Levels of Testosterone
And Higher Levels
Of Oxytocin
That
Nurturing
More only Extends
And of Course Men
With More Testosterone
Less Oxytocin Overall to
Compete For Resources
And Protect As They
Are Overall
Stronger
This Way
Our Tools
We Create Change
Matriarchal Leaning
Leading Foraging
Villages For
Cooperation
Where The
Child is
Nurtured
And Valued
Most For An
All Hands Effort
And the Rest of
Body Parts
For
Survival In
Work of The Day
And βNaked Nightβ
Key
To
Survival
With
Regenerative
Play in Dance
And
Song
Too
In
Short
Now We
Have Transformed
Into Our Tools
All Our Complex
Collected CuLTuRaL
Ways Most
Folks
Donβt
Feel
Now if They
Are Coming Going
Or Even Staying
Now In
The
Dreamtime
Of Heaven
Here
Present
Within
Together Free
Our Ancestors
Naturally Do
With
Their
Gift of Life
They (Us) Shall
Understand
Each
Other
Through
Naked Love
Or Tools That
Cover Nature
Of
God
Naked Us
Seeing Life
As Naked Gift Freeπ
Without the
Fancy
Bows
That
Tie
Naked
God Up
In And As Nature Usπ²π«
In Short We Are Evolved
To Live in
Mostly
Naked
Groups
Of 150 To
200 Matriarchal
Leaning Cooperating
H o M o G E N o U S
To Survive AND Thrive
This Doesnβt
Work in Large
Heterogeneous
Populations
As
Ignorance
Of What
Human
Nature
Is Not The
Tools We Have
Become Outside
Each Other Away
From
God
Nature
Continues
To Show
As One Big SNAFU
Answer
Master
The
Tool Naked
Do Not Become
Erased by It
As No
Longer
God Nature
In Human Wild
Loving Free
In
Heaven
On Earth
With Least
Harm For All
Fur Of Wings
Yes Hehe And
Mostly Hairless like
You My Domesticated
FRiEnD
So
Soft
And Sweet
Show me Your Teeth!
Yes Glad You Still Eat Meat! π₯©
The Dentist
Said i
Have The
Second
Biggest
Canine
Tooth
On The
Chart More
Roast Beast Soon!
Basically Men Are
Here To Protect
Serve Pleasure
Women The
Givers Of Life
So Easy
To
Naked
See Naturally
Men Who Still
Do This
Remain
Happy
Servants
Indeed Bring
Home The
Meat Protect And Serve
The Goddess indeed
A Lot Of
Dudes
Miss
The
Stairway to
Heaven Now
Almost Always
Through βGoddessβ
Just Another Name
For God Is Love Nowπ₯§
Do Note Everything
Jesus
Loves
About
Life
Still Standing
To Support Him
By Story
Under Cross
Mostly Maryβs
Meanwhile
Jealous
Story
Writers
Changed
Mary
Into
Unworthy
And Other
Women Not
Even Worthy
To Speak
Of
Spirituality
And Enter
The
Kingdom
Of Heaven
Within
We Must
Under
Stand
The
Roots
Of The
Traditions
To Sprout
God Wings
For All Again
Furry And Less Free…π²
Yes In Some Ways
At Least
This
Is
Happening Nowππ«
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Yes care and protect and stronger and all that is great and perfect …..as long as women have control of their own thoughts,speech and choices….as long as they get the respect and dignity that another human being deserves. ….I’m sure a good woman will go out of her way to nurture and nourish. I’m not against feminine qualities being associated with women….that’s a strength. I’m against the control and disrespect men exercise superior authority and rule over submissive/repressed women.
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Yes It is Sad
When A
Birdβs
Wings
Will Be Cut
Of Course
i Am
Only Speaking
Of Generalities
As Women Will
Also Be Greater
Warriors
And
Some
Men More
Nurturing
Than Wives
God Nature
Is All The
Colors
Of The
Wind
And
More
That
Humans
Do Not Even Breatheπ«π
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Love….just agape love as you always say Fred….
You have it all sorted….
Agape love to give and distribute….and all things be goodππΌβοΈππΌ
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Happy Sunday Rue
May Agape Love
Follow You Wherever
You Go To Give
The βοΈ
Gift With
SMiLes βοΈ
ALWaYS NoW βοΈ βΊοΈπ
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I believe that the day men learn to value, to love themselves and begin to feel adequate, they will no longer feel need to oppress, supress, and control women in order to create an illusion of superiority for themselves.
When they love themselves, they can love women, instead of targeting them.
One who feels inferior themselves puts others down. When they put others down, they feel falsely elevated.
Men who do not know God will continue to feel insecure and often feel hatred toward women due to misplaced anger, frustration, and feelings of insecurity. However, they don’t seem to understand this.
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Absolutely …..you nailed it sister! You echoed my sentiments. I feel men who indulge in such tactics are insecure themselves and just project their own limitations and shortcomings and failures and frustrations and inadequacies over women so they feel superior in comparison to the one they are oppressing and exercising control upon. They control what they can…especially if they are unwilling to change/identify/accept their own failures/traits and fix them….they find an easier route….It’s a vain attempt at creating a false sense of esteem and power and control over their own world..which still requires adjustment but their refusal to accept/see it blinds them to the real problem which is their own insecurity and shortcomings! A confident and strong man does not need to squash on or step on a woman to feel adequate!
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Precisely! Amen. So many men have these unaddressed issues! It is a global plague among many. I’m glad some of us can see through such garbage. How miserable for them. I pray for the day when more men will address and help other men with this stuff.
In the meantime and always, women and girls should continue to keep their standards high, know their worth, encourage each other, get and apply knowledge.
Let’s keep God first and follow His guidance. ππΎ
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Amen…amen and Amen….
God’s grace be with those that seek freedom from injustice and suppression. May God grant men the wisdom to love, honor and cherish their wives, mothers, sisters, daughters and all the women entrusted to their care.ππΌβοΈππΌ
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Amen. ππΎ
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Wonderful poem!
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Thank you so much salsaworldtraveler ππΌπ
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I am glad you were born little sister π
Jesus loves you little sister π π π
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Thank you so much brother Matt…..
Jesus loves you toooooooooπβοΈππΌπππ€©
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your voice of truth prevails bringing honest light shed to illuminate injustices and I applaud your speaking up and sharing your insights! ππππππβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
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Thank you for your constant support Cindy….you’re a dollππ€©ππ€©ππ€©ππ€©ππ€©ππ€©
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You’re so welcome! It’s my pleasure. β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
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Another beautiful poem, Ruelha. And, such an important topic. Well done. Have a lovely weekend, my friend.πβ€οΈπ
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Thank you Jeff….I’m so grateful for your supportππΌπ€©ππΌ
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You’re welcome, Ruelha. It is my complete pleasure. Have a lovely week. ππ
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Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford.
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Very well written and experienced. Freedom is the thing which inspires us to spread our wings farther!
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Great, Ruelha. You do a lot for those who are suppressed, by respected your freedom and speaking out for those who don’t have the same advantages. Bless you. x
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Thanks Dawn….I don’t do anything….I’m just hoping to write my way into people’s minds…
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it is what you say but also who and how you are as a woman that speaks volumes! x
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ππππππThanks Dawnππππππ
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My respect to you Ruelha, to your position, to your poetry! π Blessings!
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Thank you Vgeorg….so glad to receive your blessings ππ€©ππΌ
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this received a lot of good discussion, my Ruelha, will there be a part 2 at some time in the future? β€ your Dad β€
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